Monday, December 2, 2013

Thanksgiving Episode on HIMYM - Slapsgiving

Before they broke up, Ted and Robin used to share a running joke that involved both of them saluting every time someone would say a word homonymous to a military rank used before another word in a sentence, such as 'general knowledge'. But now, as Future Ted points out, being around each other is difficult and since their breakup, whenever there would be a moment to use the joke, they would simply look at each other, remaining silent. So, naturally, when Ted and Robin are the only ones to show up at Robin's place to make Thanksgiving pies, things get awkward between the two. And it gets worse when Ted realizes they are making a pie for Bob, a guy Robin has started seeing lately. Later, they decide not to see each other again after the Thanksgiving dinner because things are just too weird between them.

The next day, the gang gathers for the big holiday, or the two big holidays, as Marshall told Barney earlier he would use his third slap meant for Barney on Thanksgiving, precisely at 3 p.m. – jokingly referring to the event as 'Slapsgiving'. Barney, admitting that actually knowing when the next slap would occur is far worse than not knowing, is being terrorized by Marshall up to the point when Lily decides there would be no slapping anyone on Thanksgiving.

When Bob mentions the words 'major buzzkill' over the dinner, both Robin and Ted salute without hesitation, realizing they can stay friends with each other. Future Ted tells his kids that they had a wonderful dinner and it has since become a tradition for them to meet on Thanksgiving every year. Barney proceeds to taunt Marshall, making Lily go back on her word in the last seconds of the slap countdown, and she tells Marshall he can slap Barney. Marshall happily does so, and then sings a song composed by himself called 'You Just Got Slapped'.

At the end of the episode, the group is cleaning up and Ted utters a phrase 'major clean-up' causing everyone to salute. When Robin uses 'general idea' a while later, it's apparent that the joke is now going to stick with everyone.

Despite being vastly commercialized, holidays like Thanksgiving are quite important nowadays because they allow us to gather together and share a few moments with our loved ones. They are possibly even giving us a chance to reconcile, similarly to this episode.

On the other hand, though, I believe that holidays shouldn't give you an excuse for not caring about others during the rest of the year. Sure, some people may simply get overwhelmed with work, school, and whatnot, and forget about everything else easily. And I guess for those people, every holiday counts. Especially one like Thanksgiving. But really, do find time for those you care about, even when there isn't a holiday going on at the moment. Because at the end of the day, you never know what holiday is going to be your last.